We come into this world a clean slate
and over time we are conditioned and programmed with other people’s beliefs,
judgements, superstitions and prejudices.
By the time we hit our teenage years; these programs have become firmly
entrenched in our mind and influence not only our thinking, but also our behaviours
and perceptions. Since they are so
deeply embedded in us, most people rarely understand how these false premises
are affecting them in adulthood.
One of the most detrimental beliefs
prevalent within our world is that of conditional love. Most of us we grew up being told, “I will
love you only if...” Words that were uttered by our parents or authority
figures which implied if we did what we were told we would be loved. What this belief
