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The Joy is in the Journey
Watercolour by Beverly Blanchard |
If you wish to understand the universe, think of energy, frequency and vibration. - Nikola Tesla
There is
nothing worst then when you are stuck in a funk and someone comes along and
says, ‘You create own reality.’ It is
not something you really want to hear.
You want someone to listen to your problems, to sympathize with you and
tell you it is all going to be alright. Yet
that type of conversation doesn’t really serve you and in many cases, keeps the
negative vibration active. The more you
talk about the problem, the more you attract similar vibrations and the further
you get from the solution.
We are all
born with an internal guidance system. Similar
to a GPS, it is a system that helps us navigate through our ever changing
world. Unfortunately it is a navigation
system we rarely understand or utilize.
Within each
of us there is an inner being, soul, source energy or core energy. Call it what you like, the name is not really
important. What is important is the fact
that this is your guidance system. It
tells you whether what you are thinking or feeling is aligned with your inner
being. When you are aligned with your inner being, you feel good. When you are ornery or complaining, you are
not aligned with your inner being. Now
this is not necessarily a bad thing. All
it means is that you are exploring contrast and determining what it is you
want. Without knowing what it is you
don’t want, how can you turn in the direction of what it is you do want?
The dilemma for
most of us is that we end up stuck in the negative thinking and emotions. Somewhere we have been conditioned to think
that the more we complain or worry about a situation, the closer we will come
to a solution. We are told to talk about what is and told that talking about what we want is fantasy thinking. In reality however our
focus on what we don’t want ends up splitting our energy.
The reason
for this is once we have identified what we want our inner being moves to the
solution. Synchronistic encounters,
serendipity and other cooperative situations begin to line up for us. But, if we are over here beating the drum of
what we don’t want and feeling lousy we don’t meet up with the opportunities.
Instead we end
splitting our energy. Our inner being is
over there enjoying what we want, and we are over here complaining and feeling
lousy. Since the negative emotion becomes
the dominant vibration you get more of what it is you don’t want and you hold
yourself away from the solution. When
this happens most of us get into the blame game.
So how do
you work with your emotional guidance system?
It is
important to recognize that your inner being will never join you in a pity party. Your friends may join you but your inner
being won’t. The focus of your inner
being is on expansion and love.
One of the
first things you can do is become aware of what your emotions are telling you. If you have strong negative emotion it is an
indicator that you’re thinking thoughts which are not in alignment with your
inner being. So ask yourself, ‘what
thoughts am I thinking?’ Once you
identify the dominant thinking pattern ask yourself, ‘what thoughts could I
think that will make me feel better?’ Make it a game and start looking for an addiction
to a better feeling thought.
Let yourself
off the hook. We live in a vibrational
universe and what happened yesterday stays in yesterday. You can’t change yesterday but you have this
moment to move yourself up the emotional vibrational scale. You have the choice between miserable and
happy. Look for something in your life
that will bring you to happiness.
Use the
mantra: Circumstances don’t matter, only
my state of being matters. What state of
being do I want to feel right now?