When we are no longer able to
change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.-Viktor Frankl
With all the techniques that I have learned over the years, there are
still experiences that throw me off balance.
These are the times when I fall into the sleep of the illusion. I allow the pendulum of duality to swing to
the negative and permit my thoughts to start snowballing about the injustices
and stupidities of life and the world. I
lose control of my imagination and ultimately my state of being. I engage in a monologue with an imaginary
scenario playing out a drama on the stage of my mind. All the time I am forgetting that I have the
power to change the story.
Instead, I cruise along thinking I have control of the situation by playing
out this imaginary play in my mind. It’s
a horrid little drama filled with worst case scenarios, unsavoury characters
and the dominant underlying emotions are fear, anger and worry. The worst part of this is that when I catch
myself I know I am using my imagination to create more of that which I say I do
not want. Yet, somehow I remain
unconscious and fall back into old patterns of reiteration. I forget about the power of now. I lose the
gratitude of the moment and get lost in past happenings, old moments
influencing the present, clouding my judgement and projecting a future filled
with a drama I do not want.
“How people treat you is their Karma;
how you react is yours.” –- Wayne Dyer
Here is one
of the Universal Laws which is totally misunderstood. When most people think of
karma they think of payback, revenge and retribution.We even have slogans that tells us: “Karma is
a bitch.”The implied assumption of the
phrase is that it is about someone else’s behaviour.In today’s world, we use the word karma to
relinquish our responsibility for our own vibration. So what exactly is the Law
of Karma?
Also known
as the Law of Identical Harvest, it is the reaping of the seeds you have
sown.These seeds can either be
associated with negative or positive experiences in your life.Karma is not necessarily about behaviour, it
more about vibration.
The Splendor of Mother Earth
Mixed Media by Beverly Blanchard
What
is the thought you thinking right now?Is it an empowering thought? Is it a thought about the argument you had
yesterday?Is it a thought about what
you have to do tomorrow?Is it a thought
about what you saw in the news?Whatever
that thought is; you are using it to create your reality.
All
time is a suggestion of the mind.In our
world, we project it as a horizontal line in which there is a past, a present
and a future.For many of us, we lock ourselves
into internal and external conversations that either rehash the past or speak
about a future filtered through our past memories.Through our dialogues, we tend attract to
ourselves analogous circumstances and relationships over and over again.We change jobs only to be confronted with the
same problem employees or bosses.We get
out of one relationship and find ourselves engaged with the same type of
person.At points we ask ourselves: Why
am I experiencing this again?Why do I
keep attracting the same thing over and over again?
You
are experiencing it because you haven’t shifted your vibration.If you spend time listening to your internal
and external dialogues, you will discover that you are unconsciously
creating.You are using your imaginal
abilities to create negatively.For the
thoughts you are thinking in this moment do not recede into the past.They actually advance into the future to
confront you.
If
you are continually talking about the problem you had yesterday, you are
projecting that onto the screen of your tomorrows. If you are talking
negatively about what might happen, you are projecting that onto the screen of
your life.It is through the thoughts
you are saying or thinking at this particular moment that puts the whole thing
in motion.
In
the middle of your past and future, is the present moment. Most of us neglect
this moment because we do not understand that it is our point of power.It is the bouncing off point.How you use it determines your next moment
and the next moment and the next moment.
To
move your awareness to the present moment, you have to release yourself from
‘what is’.You cannot continue to focus
on what it is you don’t like and expect to change your life. It is your focusing that keeps you locked into
a pattern.I can hear you now...but this
is reality!If you don’t like your
reality, then it is time to become a conscious creator.It’s time to realize that you are the
operative power and that power rests with how you use your imaginal abilities
in this present moment.
So
where do you begin?You start playing
with time and become aware of how you are using you present moment.Here are few exercises for you to experiment
with to get you into the habit of becoming conscious of your moments.
1.Do a mental roll
call.Throughout the day, stop whatever
you are doing and take attendance.Mentally
call out your name and answer:Present.
2.Throughout the day, stop whatever you are
doing and ask yourself: ‘what time is it?’Answer:‘The time is now and I am
here.’
3.Break out of your routine.Have dinner for breakfast.Drive to work a different way.Go for a walk at lunch time.Meditate on your coffee break.Go into the office earlier and leave earlier
than you normally do.Wake up an hour
earlier.
Here
is a clip from the movie Groundhog Day.Watch how he starts to change his thinking.